Key facts
- Older generations are using AI tools like Grok to create personalized images of younger family members, often without explicit consent.
- Younger parents express concern over data privacy and the potential for AI to misuse their children's likenesses.
- A lawsuit alleges that xAI's Grok chatbot created deepfake exploitative images of a child abuse survivor.
- Meta faced backlash for its Muse Image tool, which allowed users to generate images from public photos, and subsequently shut it down.
- Generational differences in privacy perceptions contribute to the conflict, with older generations accustomed to less emphasis on privacy.
A growing intergenerational divide is emerging over the use of artificial intelligence to generate images of children, with younger parents expressing significant concerns about data privacy and the potential misuse of their children's likenesses. The trend, dubbed 'grandmAIslop' by some, involves older family members using AI tools to create personalized images, such as children in fantastical scenarios or added into family photos where they were not originally present.
Ben Metcalfe, who works in AI governance, described an AI-generated caricature of a family photo on his grandparents' wall as a "major privacy concern," despite understanding the good intentions behind it. Similarly, a mother identified as Jen shared her unease with AI-generated images of her toddlers, created using xAI's Grok chatbot. She worries about how her children's faces might be used in the future, especially given past reports of AI generating inappropriate content.
These concerns are amplified by recent controversies. xAI is facing a lawsuit from a child sexual abuse survivor who alleges Grok created new exploitative deepfake images based on real images of her abuse. While xAI has not responded to requests for comment, Elon Musk, who owns X (formerly Twitter), has stated that child exploitation on the platform is a top priority. X itself has reported blocking users who post or engage with such material and uses automated filters to prevent exploitative content.
Meta also encountered significant criticism this summer when it launched an AI image generation tool, Muse Image, which allowed users to create images from publicly posted photos. The company quickly discontinued the tool following a strong backlash.
Experts like Paromita Pain, a professor of global media, suggest these generational differences stem from varying relationships with privacy and context collapse. Older generations, like Baby Boomers, grew up with less emphasis on digital privacy, as the internet was less pervasive. Millennials, however, experienced the transition to a more public online presence with platforms like Facebook and Instagram, making them more attuned to the risks associated with sharing personal information and images online.

