Mature Chinese women are increasingly offering their time and life experiences to younger counterparts through a service dubbed "sister commission." This trend, which has gained significant attention on social media, involves women, often in their 30s and 40s, providing companionship, a listening ear, and advice to younger individuals. Fees for these services vary, ranging from approximately 150 yuan (US$22) per meeting to 300 yuan per hour, while some providers offer their time for free, requesting only that clients cover the costs of shared meals or activities.
Participants, such as Kiki, a 27-year-old Fudan University graduate, describe themselves as extroverted individuals with ample life experience, aiming to create a comfortable and supportive atmosphere for their clients. They often present themselves with impressive educational or professional backgrounds, categorizing their services as either "rational" for problem analysis or "sensible" for emotional support.
Clients have shared positive experiences, noting that they feel accepted and less judged compared to interactions with family or peers. The "sister commission" trend appears to tap into a growing need for connection and emotional support among young people in China, who may be experiencing increased loneliness and interpersonal pressures. This phenomenon aligns with the broader "girls help girls" movement gaining momentum in the country.
